This morning I read Proverbs 31, as
scheduled for me by Charles Swindoll. Marriage has taught him that he
is neither all sufficient or totally self-sufficient. He needs his
wife for support, insight, discernment, counsel, love, presence, and
her efficiency. Not a crutch, but a companion and partner.
I then wondered what my Devotional
Bible, Experiencing the Heart of Jesus, had to say and found
these “gem” words by Linda Dillow, from Creative Counterpart.
I will summarize, with additions of my own, of course!
Not much is said about make-up or
aging, and as far as clothes, they were nice. But, (always watch out
for the “buts” and “therefores”) her inner qualities did show
in her face and stature. That goes back to my view about if you
smile, no one will care about your hair.
Now the biggie: The testimony of those
who knew her best—her husband and kids. Plaques on the wall for all
sorts of honors can't compare with praise from my family. Back when I
antiqued with my girls and I saw those framed little wall adornments
for mothers, I would read them in a sing-songy way, which led to
receiving them as gifts from the girls. Of course, I saved favorites
from the big 2009 sale, and enjoy them yet today. I also saved all my
cards since I required my kids to write a personal note in them and
find immense pleasure in reading them yet today (last photo).
Linda Dillow writes that as we look at
this woman in Proverbs 31, at the praise given to her, and learn
about her inward character, we should be encouraged to remember that
she had grown children. Her inner qualities did not appear overnight
but were hammered out in the trials of life as she trusted God and
obeyed Him. The writer of Proverbs 31 ends with the key to her
success. “A woman who fears God is truly charming and lovely.” A
relationship with God is vital!
